Saturday, May 14, 2005
I am lesbo-phobic.
Sincere apologies to the lesbians I might be offending. I have nothing against this type of sexual preference, but I do not appreciate being put in a situation where I am made uncomfortable by their actions because I do not want to have to be rude to them (or anyone, for that matter).
There's this girl I just met who makes me more and more uncomfortable the longer I know her. She says that she has a boyfriend, but my gaydar goes haywire whenever we talk (It doesn't help either that she really looks butch). It started when we were walking to a nearby restaurant the other day to have lunch, and while we were chatting (two of our other companions were walking ahead of us, deep in conversation about something work-related), she kept grabbing my hand. I would then pretend to brush the hair off my eyes, and the moment I relax my arm on my side, she would grab it again. Thank god the restaurant was just a couple of blocks away.
I had a deadline yesterday, so I was very occupied all morning, oblivious to what was happening around me. She passed by my desk and said hi. When I looked up to return the greeting, she said, "ang ganda talaga ng mukha mo," and at the same time ran her fingers across my forehead.
Oh my god. My insides shook. I have a very well-harnessed gaydar, and whenever I get this feeling, I am right most of the time. Like I said earlier, I have nothing against lesbians whatsoever, but if she is gay, I do not appreciate the fact that she tries to pass off as straight in order to get close to girls.
Right now, I am trying to be as professinal as possible, thank god that our desks are on opposite ends of the room. I have no idea how to tell her that her actions make me very uncomfortable without offending her. I guess that it's a good thing that she will only be with the company for a few months before her contract ends. Until then, I will grit my teeth through this all.
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